Sadgi kai sath Nikkah

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When people say they want to have “sadgi kai sath nikkah” what does it really mean?

That there should be no guests except the family & witnesses? That there should be no sort of give & take of gifts?
That it be in Masjid?
Or what else?

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Re: Sadgi kai sath Nikkah

Sadegi is best. Not sure what it means, as it could mean different things to different people.

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cinderelli, no more than 50 guests, use your house as a venue, pilau, qourma and zarda or kheer, bride's dress under £500, classic vintage car for hire, handmade wedding invites, simple floral decoration is what I call a simple but aesthetic wedding.

Now if you want to make it more simple you can reduce the guests to 10, no food just a glass of sharbat rooh afza, no wedding invites, no decor, no hiring of the vehicle and no bridal dress.

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Re: Sadgi kai sath Nikkah

Thanks Hareem. I am talking about just the nikkah some 3-4 months before the actual wedding. If it is asked that it may be done with sadgi, what does it mean in that case?

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^Oh okay...do you want me to move this thread to Wedding forum? I'm sure you'll get plenty of good suggestion there.

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I would say that its done simply ..... in a masjid or at home, limited guests and then maybe a dinner for close family and friends at home. If this is a request from the future in laws just ask them what they would like to see.

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nothing too lavish. simple can look elegant. i like simple.

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sadgi means that since a few months later there ill be milad them myaoon/mehndi shaadi and valima they want a small scale nikah . no of ppl less , everything just uncomplicated simplified and easier on the pocket since later there will be more days and more expenditure. my guess :)

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i think in the masjid or at home and just ur immediate family...food etc and maybe a few decorations at home

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dont get confused with the word "saadgi say nikkah". Every family has their own definition of this word so you better discuss every single details with them to avoid embarrassment at the last moment.

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that means you are not getting much from his side but there are no restrictions on your side to give out (to dulha and to his family) :p

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Saadgi means no rasms, no decorations and no guests just family members i think

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saadgi se nikah means in presence of very few relatives and at home/masjid with no lavish food, dresses, decor, rasams etc.

btw nikkah can be done on the actual wedding day too so that one wouldnot feel that a separate lavish party was thrown just for the nikkah day (if they wanna do nikkah in presence of all the guests..lavishly)

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Her name is Sadgi.

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My cousin had nikah few days back for visa, her wedding is in October. So they had SADGI sey nikah.... just guys and girls family (parents and sibblings) and witnesses... that's it.... and lunch or dinner.. don't know details.... but its called sadgi sey nikah mery khayal main

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if Sadgi and you both are ok then go ahead and do nikkah. :@:

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i guess if the nikkah is done with sadgi and only the couples parents and siblings are present then it would look nice if the couple wear casual clothes like under 10-15000 rupees and then both families go out for dinner.

but some parents might be chalaak and convince you to do a sadgi se nikkah and then say that they will do it big in 3 months time. But they might be lying and when it is time to do the big wedding they might be like no you cant have a big wedding when your nikkah is done. Could i be right?