If not why it is not given to male? He also got right to pass longer time with the partner and he might be affected due to death of spouse i same way (emotionally and psychologically) like the ladies. no?
sada suhagan raho, doesn’t refer to long matrimonial life. You can see desi ladies wishing their deaths before husbands. Sartaaj aap ki aai mujhe aae type things.