sad

why:(

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:(

when something goes against your expectation or feelings or likings etc., then you feel blue :(

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but we dont get sad when a random stranger does something to us.

is it about the trust we build?

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well it depends from person to person.

I feel sad even when a random stranger does something bad. May be I feel sad for the stranger in that case, and not necessarily for my ownself.

When a person whom you trust cause you sadness, the sadness is all yours and you don't share it with the person at all :(

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does all of this have to do with the fact that humans like to build relationships :hmmm: and be social

its a constant fight between our selfishness and altruism?

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Good point.

I think all human emotions, good or bad, have an impact on our relationships.

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Sad :hmmm: b’coz…

Hazaaron khwahishen aisi ke har khwahish pe dam nikle
Bohat niklay mere armaan, lekin phir bhi kam nikle

Thousands of desires, each worth dying for…
many of them I have realized…yet I yearn for more…

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When you compare yourselves to others.

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^
Another aspect is that one envy when he/she compare oneself to others. Becoming sad in that case is rarely seen.

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no wonder you are always sad

ok ok i am joking :(

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when you compare yourself to others? so do you feel sad for yourself or others when you compare?

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Nothing is more burdensome than expectations. Problem with people is that once you are connected with others, you automatically start different kind of things from them and when things do not come out the way you want, one gets sad.

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When you write sad instead of saddddddd and why instead of whyyyyyyy, then all is not well. Hope you come out of this- soonnnnnnnnn!