Okay I love my mother in law. She is one of the most pious person I have met. She reads Quran everyday, forgives everyone that has said or done anything bad to her, loves my kids and me. I have a great relationship with her even though we have lived very different lives.
She is looking for a daughter in law her younger son. She keeps rejecting girls for him because of looks! She has a fat nose, she is not white enough, she is a little chubby, he eyes are droopy, she is too short - I don't want grandschildren to be short - (makes my blood boil to a degree when you objectify a person like that)
Should I say something to her?
best is just listen and keep quiete otherwise sasaain could send you to hell