just be happy that you met all her standards for looks.. consider yourself very pretty and let her search for the choti bahu..how come your brother in law doesnt say anything in this matter? Perhaps he should tell his mom what is he looking for in terms of looks/character/education etc to make things easy for her!!
:) I am POSITIVE that I did not meet her standards for looks. My husband and I had love marriage. But she grew to like me.
I feel like I should correct her because she is so pious and she wasn't taught any differently but that could open up a whole can of worms.