it’s the desi setup we are talking about. It’s usually always the past that comes and ends up screwing the present. And i don’t think men would actually want to know their wives had ex’s, let alone meet them. Desis are mostly conservative, you know. Exceptions would be there but methinks that mostly hubbies would go bonkers over ‘sheesh..my wife’s ex!’ and so would the desi woman. You gotta be desi afterall ![]()