Running into an Ex after marriage....

what would you do?

  1. run?
  2. make sure to grab your spouse and run?
  3. ignore them?
  4. trip them?
  5. silently curse them?
  6. pretend to text/call someone?
  7. smile, nod, or make small talk?
  8. think, shyt hope they don’t say something to my spouse?
  9. pray your spouse and ex don’t know each other?
  10. not a big deal…?

Re: Running into an Ex after marriage....

not a big deal ..

all depends on how much your significant other knows, how they are, and how your ex is.

Re: Running into an Ex after marriage....

^ .. dude .. whatever the ex WAS .. it was A PAST .. why ppl drag past with their present .. why they make it a big deal .. the past is there to teach you lessons .. not to be in your present and nag u !

Re: Running into an Ex after marriage....

^ I know... but if it was easy to forget everything...good or bad...then there wouldn't be a million quotes on the whole issue of "past" and moving on and so on all over the internet/books

if your ex is a psycho, then plz....forget and run! :)

Re: Running into an Ex after marriage....

u gota train ur mind .. .. everything is a mind game .. ..

Re: Running into an Ex after marriage....

^ awesome :)

life would be easier if we were robots… :hinna:

Re: Running into an Ex after marriage....

I chose to be .. .. .. took little time but .. i am successful ;)

Re: Running into an Ex after marriage....

^ not fun...but easier to train minds then :)

Re: Running into an Ex after marriage....

acha...whats your secret....besides having an avatar as your mentor? :)

Re: Running into an Ex after marriage....

why u want to train ur heart .. .. .. it is already been trained .. to pump blood!

lol .. .. good question .. .. can't xplain in public ..:D

Re: Running into an Ex after marriage....

lol..... forget the heart...never listen to it.... mind is in more control...my poor heart just keeps wishing for things, but as you know..a desi mind overrules hahah

yup, so let the past be past, if the ex wants to try and impact your present somehow then you want to avoid them, why bother.

thats why i said it depends on people involved in how you would tackle that, my wife has run into and met my exes and i have met her ex, no biggie there, it was a nonissue.

Re: Running into an Ex after marriage....

^yup .. why should one even bother .. she is just anothe random person .. .. why u even care about it .. ..

Re: Running into an Ex after marriage....

I won't...unless they my shoes...then I'd mind lolz :)

of course this run in hasn't happened yet...but just in case... good to know your opinions

I think guys wouldn't care as much...but girls would since you never know if the guy ends up talking shyt 2 your hubby....or even acknowledge themselves as your ex.

i don't think most most girls would mind if their hubbies had exes or w/e...but idk about the hubbies.... most but not all would mind.

but kudos X2

Re: Running into an Ex after marriage…

oh wait… I keep forgetting. its desi girls…hells yeah they would mind. man..they be crazzzy :dixsi:

any sensible ex guy will never do shyt about his girl .. unless he is a looser .. ..

Re: Running into an Ex after marriage....

Doesn't matter really. And I don't see the need to run, well unless she collects garbage bags for passtime and has a unique collection of cleavers.