^ .. dude .. whatever the ex WAS .. it was A PAST .. why ppl drag past with their present .. why they make it a big deal .. the past is there to teach you lessons .. not to be in your present and nag u !
^ I know… but if it was easy to forget everything…good or bad…then there wouldn’t be a million quotes on the whole issue of “past” and moving on and so on all over the internet/books
lol… forget the heart…never listen to it… mind is in more control…my poor heart just keeps wishing for things, but as you know..a desi mind overrules hahah
yup, so let the past be past, if the ex wants to try and impact your present somehow then you want to avoid them, why bother.
thats why i said it depends on people involved in how you would tackle that, my wife has run into and met my exes and i have met her ex, no biggie there, it was a nonissue.
of course this run in hasn’t happened yet…but just in case… good to know your opinions
I think guys wouldn’t care as much…but girls would since you never know if the guy ends up talking shyt 2 your hubby…or even acknowledge themselves as your ex.
i don’t think most most girls would mind if their hubbies had exes or w/e…but idk about the hubbies… most but not all would mind.