Rules your children follow

[Sweetmoi]

Re: Rules your children follow

@psyah

Peace Sister DaffyDuck

1. Our rules in the home are not really defined - but outside the kids are not allowed to answer back or get in to a debate with us - which as you can see is sort of encouraged in the home for learning purposes.

2. Only one way - we need to cut them out ourselves

3. Usually parents these days have a grown up child inside them … when we get games for ourselves - our kids want to play too. Kids will do what we lead them to do.

4. Threaten them with real warnings … things they can understand in tangible terms. Like time out, not speaking to them, rewarding their siblings is more effective than saying no gift for you. So if they are fighting a sibling you say if you hit so and so then he will get a chocolate. It is worse than them not having a chocolate than to see the one who they are fighting with being rewarded. We try to always reinforce love between siblings.

Why no debate outside house?

How can u reinforce love between siblings when u are also rewarding one of them becuz the other misbehaves?