Ruksati when you're staying the night in the same hotel as your baraat event?

[saira10]

Re: Ruksati when you’re staying the night in the same hotel as your baraat event?

@redvelvet

You go for a drive …more than just one or two chakkars around the hotel…to give guests time to leave and you know how our people love to linger around. Unless you’ll enter the hotel from another door to where you won’t bump into guests that are leaving as you’re trying to make your way up yo your suite.

So. Go for a drive. It’ll be a nice change and you can relax for 30 mins to an hour or so before coming back to the hotel. And it’s not a weird dilemma, hardly a problem at all. Congrats on your wedding.

Thanks, I think that’s what I’ll end up doing! I just realized that our hotel is near the water so we could drive down and walk/talk a bit before we go back. Haha, I laugh at the thought of finding an alternate entrance to sneak back in…it feels like we’d be hiding from paparazzi!

@khattichic

I had my ruhksati in the hotel…it wasn’t awkward or weird or strange at all. Goodbyes were said at the lounge area/entrance of the ballroom. My sisters, cousins and a couple of friends and his bhabi went in the elevator with us up to the bridal suite…they did a dhood pillai rasm, we took some photos, everyone chatted a little and then left..and it was just us then. It was very relaxed, didn’t realize it should be done any other way lol

This is really sweet! The only thing with me is that his family is from 4 hours away and everyone is staying in the same hotel and on the same floor as our bridal suite, so they’d all come back up with us (and he has a big family mA).