It must be that time of night, or the insanely depressing news I have been watching for the past 24 hours, that weird thoughts are creeping into my mind. I thought to look through some wedding forum posts to distract myself and came across rukhsati and bridal flower beds. And the one thing that crossed my mind was, “I’m seriously going to begin crying unless my husband agrees to drive from the hotel where we have the wedding back to my house where I can sleep in MY bed, in MY room, where I have been sleeping for 18years!!”
I need to stop being awake! I want to cry now. Damn terrorists.
It must be that time of night, or the insanely depressing news I have been watching for the past 24 hours, that weird thoughts are creeping into my mind. I thought to look through some wedding forum posts to distract myself and came across rukhsati and bridal flower beds. And the one thing that crossed my mind was, "I'm seriously going to begin crying unless my husband agrees to drive from the hotel where we have the wedding back to my house where I can sleep in MY bed, in MY room, where I have been sleeping for 18years!!"
I need to stop being awake! I want to cry now. Damn terrorists.
You won't cry if your husband takes you to any other bed and you enjoy the 'night of your life' experience.
You will forget your own bed. Betchya! You would never want to go back to your lonely bed again. :)
I cannot cry infront of strangers... But I think I will cry because I get sooo upset just thinking about it. But no one in my family everr cries... So idk. I will look stupid being sad when everyone is happy
It must be that time of night, or the insanely depressing news I have been watching for the past 24 hours, that weird thoughts are creeping into my mind. I thought to look through some wedding forum posts to distract myself and came across rukhsati and bridal flower beds. And the one thing that crossed my mind was, "I'm seriously going to begin crying unless my husband agrees to drive from the hotel where we have the wedding back to my house where I can sleep in MY bed, in MY room, where I have been sleeping for 18years!!"
I need to stop being awake! I want to cry now. Damn terrorists.
Yes thinking about the fact that I won't be in my home anymore always gets me teary! I enjoy being in my room rather then being around the house, even if I'm not doing anything. As much as the idea of marriage seems fun and new experience, a part of me wishes that me and my husband could just stay at my house, in my room. It's really emotional to think about rukhsati and not being able to see the face of your family everyday like your used to. Stupid boys better appriciate!!
Other then all the sad stuff, I love the idea of the dramatic scene of a rukhsati...if I have to, I'll pay people to cry on my rukhsati just so I appear somewhat important :D
haha paying people to cry! what a brilliant idea! I dont think ill have that problem though. I think my family aside, even my MIL might start crying if I do. She's adorably sweet and loves me to bits, cries a bit too easily though. Im sure if I start the waterworks, she'll follow suit!
Yes thinking about the fact that I won't be in my home anymore always gets me teary! I enjoy being in my room rather then being around the house, even if I'm not doing anything. As much as the idea of marriage seems fun and new experience, a part of me wishes that me and my husband could just stay at my house, in my room. It's really emotional to think about rukhsati and not being able to see the face of your family everyday like your used to. Stupid boys better appriciate!!
Other then all the sad stuff, I love the idea of the dramatic scene of a rukhsati...if I have to, I'll pay people to cry on my rukhsati just so I appear somewhat important :D
Rukhsati is something which you cannot predict. I don't know what will happen to me or how. It depends on the situation, the guy, my family, his family, whether I will be moving far from my family or not etc. But I do cry a lot when seeing other girls' rikhsatis (even on the videos).
Rukhsati is something which you cannot predict. I don't know what will happen to me or how. It depends on the situation, the guy, my family, his family, whether I will be moving far from my family or not etc. But I do cry a lot when seeing other girls' rikhsatis (even on the videos).
lol paying people to cry on rukhsati now thats really cute :). Rukhsatis are unpredictable, more and more I notice brides are actually happy at these moments vs. being emotional, everybody laughs right through it so i guess it might indicate that people are more happier with their groom choice these days, and feel less sad to leave?
I dunno. I'm living away from home, so I often do want to go away to my room back home. But I wouldn't wanna live with him in my room. Ewww...that's strictly a no boys-zone. I'd rather have an us room.
Reminds me of this one family where the girl was getting married to her cousin and he was moving in with them (still a student and the girl had lost her dad, so the guy moved in with them to support etc.,). The girl's mom cried her eyes out and someone asked why since her daughter was still living in the same bedroom. The mom's response was that the she wouldn't be able to order her around anymore because she's a married woman now and would need her husbands permission for stuff. Lol , cute.
^^ hahaha. My mom and husband get along fabulously well. Sometimes in front of him I feel she orders me around even more just to see if I still listen :)
