Rukhsati Aur Rona Dhona

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Good :smiley:

Oh I better get out of here before I get warning for flooding :bummer:

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I really dont plan to cry at all...if anything it will only be natural
and It is an happy occasion but leaving your family and house is something sad aswell...so the tears do come naturally

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nowadays if brides (many of them) cry they cry for show…if they dont the elders will think it’s bad. :s…silly i think!

it’s ridiculous to cry if you are going to move only 1 hr away from ur parents house lol…it’s not like you wont see them again. I can understand if the bride is moving out of the country.

my mom didnt cry at my sisters weddings…although my sisters and I cried…strange i know lol.

I dont think I’ll cry because i am the only one left in my home so it’s not like I am leaving anyone other then my mom and I’m taking my mom with me wherever I go :phati:

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I dnt think if anyone Actually plan to cry, Its something natural because you are leaving your parents house and dont have such experiance before in life unless you are living out before the wedding

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I cried on my wedding but none of my family members including my sisters did..............they were jealous .

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Your own sisters were jealous of you! That's appaling

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yes my sisters are like cindrellas step sisters.

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Hain jealous of u ? because you were getting married ?

I used to envy all my cousins when they got married :vivo:

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That's just pathetic. I wouldn't worry about other family members if they were jealous but your own siblings.

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no because i got more gold than them..........................i've given back all the gold i got on wedding to my sisters in law.............

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humans are greedy .....most of the time.

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Clever woman, now they can pay all that zakat. :D]

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How did you deal with their jealousy if you don't mind sharing?

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i didn't give the gold to my own sisters, i gave it to my husband's sisters.

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Anyway, they are not jealous now....they are my sisters afterall and they do care about me and now they know me more than they did before.

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I didnt cry at my wedding, was very happy alhamdulillah.
I cried at my sister's wedding, but not in front of everyone, only after she left. She moved to another city, so naturally I felt sad although I was very happy for her marriage.
I've gotten tears in my eyes at some friend's wedding..not from sadness or anything, just from sheer emotion and intensity, happiness.
At one wedding I went to the mother of the bride was crying so much and so loudly, it was so awkward and uncomfortable. And her daughter only moved like 10 minutes away from her. But the mother cried as if it was a funeral not a wedding. It was very uncomfortable for everyone because no one knew what to do and she just wouldnt stop

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I pray that I don't cry when my sister leaves. (when will this happen!!!!) :D

I've seen brothers cry a lot especially older bros. WHY

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If we split this and look at the English, they have a totally different attitude to Rukhsati, Father give his Daughter way and then have a reception afterwards. :hehe:]

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I have never see a brother cry.

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I think this is old fashioned, the dulha should cry now, equal rights ka zamana hai, we wont let reverse discrimination take the day!