hey guppies .. end of this year i will b goin 2 pakistan for both my bro and sisters wedding.. inshallah lekin you noe mujhe pataa hai ke abhi kafhi time hai buh im jus feelin so sad aur mujhe bohat ziyada ajj kal khayal aa raha hai ke how will it be widout her.. since me and her were so close and talkin abt everything.. coz after her weddin she will b livin in pakistan while i cum bak .. aur phir yeh hai ke bhabi bhi aa jaaye gi kuch mahino baad lekin its not the same as hvein ur sister arnd..
aur bas im jus feelin so lonely .. and thinkin abt all the great times we had and wat is goin to happen now since she will b gone.. wat wud i do.. n how will it feel.. n stuff lyke dis is jus on my mind and i hvent shared it wid ne 1 .. aur yeh ke it will feel so incomplete i wud hve no one arnd to talk abt ne thing..
im sure many girls heer hve gone thru dis so plz share
Yes you do. Although 10 years ago when my eldest sister had an arranged marriage, I was vehemently against it, and met my bro-in-law 2 days before the wedding. I was bawling that how on earth can my sister marry him. LOL it all works out in the end I suppose.
it's only a few dayz then you will get used to it . after her marriage you will be have to be more responsible in case you are younger to her . but if you are older to her than things will be slightly different .
and yes the bhabhi will be your good new friend in no time .
Good luck :)
i have not gone through this, but i know that when it will hapen, it may not be as dramatic as it gets n case of people who like to associate 'rukhsati' with a woman signing away her life...
parting is difficult for both men and women, as they are starting a new schedule in their until now, single lives.
but, it should not reflect fragility of either the woman or the man.
if anything, it ought to be a happy beginning, no?
Everything will be ok You will get used to it ..... I Remember when my sis got married ... I was feeling the same.. But after a few monts i was like this is life, I love my sister & Still have the same feeling for her So calm down don't stress yourself .... One thing is clear that you can't be with her all the life. Off course you miss your sibilings once they are apart from you.
But keep yourself away from such thoughts ....
You'll cry and cry during rukhsati, and that's fine..but also know that shes starting a new life, ull always be her sister. things will always change, soon she'll be someones mother etc.. u get used to these changes..
It may seem hard but..it all works out in the end....yes rukhsati is very hard..but the thing is she is starting her new life..perhaps you will become even closer..in the end everyone adjusts..
i did not cry that much .