rude nands

[Wane]

Re: rude nands

@Demesne

another tact is to be overly sweetly sarcastic. pretend to be naive abt it all. but that requires a lot of follow through.

Thing is, jo bhi ho jaye it shudnt affect your married life. Not by the impression u give your husband of the person u can be in giving them tit for tat answers to their rudeness, not by showing him u dont like his family (afterall its his family he will be defensive to some level abt them)

Another tactic ive observed beyond the chup rehna is to play reverse psychology. Ive see people do this in marriages. Like wife will totally encourage the husband to do a LOT for the sisters, he will think shes going too overboard and not do that much. Shes in the safe zone since she is now the good wife and he didnt do all that cos he thinks she is too naive and they dont need that much. Since she didnt get him defensive abt them, he could judge them practically.

U should brush off whatever they say and separate them in ur mind from ur husband. He isnt responsible for what they say and u should understand that. they obviously dont respect him hence are rude with u. Brush it off and make excuses for them. She prolly doesnt have such nice hair as urs hence the snippy remark. Make excuses for them in front of husband in a sincere manner and he will feel closer to u

demesne, itni ziada planning?