Re: Rude Behavior
its NOT rude 
pcg may be the friend is not close to you or not REALLY a friend. but my goodness how can ppl react to such minor things. now we need to be so formal with friends too I wont want such touch me not kind of ppl as my friends… :shrugs:
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I don't think it's controlling. If the friend is usually a relaxed person....then maybe she was just having a bad day. Or perhaps she felt like it sounded like an order.
It's not rude, are you kidding me?
rude would be, "aye bewaqoof aake mujhe pick karo jaldi"
with a good friend ... even this wouldnt be rude.
this would be rude:*** wtf! dont get out of your house till i tell you to!***
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I've known her since we were babies. And we are normally very informal. So informal that when I invite her over she brings friends without telling me.
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I think she was probably upset with you about something else, and took this opportunity to let off steam this way.
I've known her since we were babies. And we are normally very informal. So informal that when I invite her over she brings friends without telling me.
WWHAT DID YOU DOOOO TO HERRRRRRRRR :ASA:
I've known her since we were babies. And we are normally very informal. So informal that when I invite her over she brings friends without telling me.
Have you talked to her about it? If not, then maybe you should. If she's someone you really care about, then don't let it go unresolved. Even if she weren't mad at your message...but was miffed at something else that happened that day....she may appreciate your concern for her.
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This girl is increasingly nuts, and I have no time for nutty people.
She's on ignore for a long period of time. Not just for this but her whole conversation with me that revolved around ridiculous criticisms. She's a very opinionated girl, and thinks that if you don't live life the way she lives it, then you simply are not living.
I have no desire to smoke pot, sleep around, reject Islam, mock my culture and religion and never see my parents. That is no someone I want to be learning my social skills from.
I'm moving on.
I just wanted to know what you guys thought. Obviously, I would not text THAT message to someone I'm not so familiar with. But if its someone I've grown up with, and I've sent her hazaar messages like that, then I don't see where she suddenly thinks I'm giving any orders. I simply wrote a short message, because I never even write complete proper grammatically correct sentences when it comes to good friends. I assume they believe I'm not actually writing an order, but just writing a quick message on a text.
This girl is increasingly nuts, and I have no time for nutty people.
She's on ignore for a long period of time. Not just for this but her whole conversation with me that revolved around ridiculous criticisms. She's a very opinionated girl, and thinks that if you don't live life the way she lives it, then you simply are not living.
I have no desire to smoke pot, sleep around, reject Islam, mock my culture and religion and never see my parents. That is no someone I want to be learning my social skills from.
I'm moving on.
I just wanted to know what you guys thought. Obviously, I would not text THAT message to someone I'm not so familiar with. But if its someone I've grown up with, and I've sent her hazaar messages like that, then I don't see where she suddenly thinks I'm giving any orders. I simply wrote a short message, because I never even write complete proper grammatically correct sentences when it comes to good friends. I assume they believe I'm not actually writing an order, but just writing a quick message on a text.
Oh, so she did take it as an order then?
If you've sent her hazaar messages like that...then it could be, as several of us have suggested, that she was miffed about something prior to your message....and took out her frustrations on you. Maybe she was stressed already and had many things to do...and when you told her to pick her up earlier....she thought "Oh great, another thing to do, can't catch a break" and became snippy with you. I'm not trying to defend her, just putting forth a possibility.
But after trying to talk to her...if you feel that she was harsh/unfair.....then maintain a distance from her. Even more so....if you've always had this problem with her.
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i don't think that text msg is rude at all!
This girl is increasingly nuts, and I have no time for nutty people.
She's on ignore for a long period of time. Not just for this but her whole conversation with me that revolved around ridiculous criticisms. She's a very opinionated girl, and thinks that if you don't live life the way she lives it, then you simply are not living.
I have no desire to smoke pot, sleep around, reject Islam, mock my culture and religion and never see my parents. That is no someone I want to be learning my social skills from.
I'm moving on.
I just wanted to know what you guys thought. Obviously, I would not text THAT message to someone I'm not so familiar with. But if its someone I've grown up with, and I've sent her hazaar messages like that, then I don't see where she suddenly thinks I'm giving any orders. I simply wrote a short message, because I never even write complete proper grammatically correct sentences when it comes to good friends. I assume they believe I'm not actually writing an order, but just writing a quick message on a text.
okay so from THAT text message to that in red?! are you saying that girl does all those?!
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The only thing I can think of that could have set her off , is that maybe she likes to arrive early or late at destination "X" and thought your telling her 4:45 was an exact time order. Kinda weird but that's the only thing I can think of from the limited info.
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its rude that you are poor and don’t have your own car. 
but if you were rich, you would buy better frans than this khataara.
as a behavioral economist, i will have to say we all get what we afford and deserve.
That and it might be that time of the month when women get mad at anything and everything. for no reason .
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With all due respect maybe she is doing the right thing by letting you know that your message was rude and it made her upset. I mean after all that is what we are supposed to do when something bothers us, talk it over? Why didn't you ask her for details when she attempted to tell you it was rude? Why didn't you ask her wh she thinks this is unacceptable all of a sudden when your friendship has been like htis for years? Maybe she has been upset with you and has held it in and choose to let you know now.
I could be wrong... but this is a possiblity...
PCG was scared of her friend that is why she did not dare to ask her friend and chose to waste everybody’s time . Like we have something more important to do other than net surfing. 
HEHEHEHEHE
That and it might be that time of the month when women get mad at anything and everything. for no reason .
Even if it were true......it irritates them even more when a guy tries to explain to their face that this is the cause for their anger.
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rv, why are you getting angry today? 
I’m not. What made you think that? I was just telling Mirch that it doesn’t seem women take to well with that explanation from the opposite gender, lol.