ok so...you have disagreement with someone. I have SUCH a problem with people who say things that further the disagreement instead of being mature adults and working things out. Things like....
Stating a position and ending it by saying "ok bye" Using the term "WHATever..." or even worse, "whateva" and all similar saying such as "sure, whatever you say" or "yes DEAR'. Calling a female "Ma'am"
I see my kindergartener using this type of strategy and I END IT. This is not how you resolve issues, its how you further bad relations and keep the arguments going. What a total turnoff when this approach is taken!
Or am I being persnickety?
Like when they say...........
You are either with us ...............or against us!
kinda rude............:(