I think girls would love to go all out and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Just because it did not work the first time does not mean they cannot enjoy the second beginning.
They just do it simple because our desi community is a jallad. They will banaa'o so much baatain hence the newly weds try to keep it simple
Thats exactly it. She is getting uncomfortable with the idea only because of the gossip it might create.