First loves are all BS; u rarely end up wiht them, either it’s not returned or forces will keep u apart… Whoever said.. it’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all was a freakin moron and I wanna bash him over hte head 
And if you happened to end up witH (marry) ur first love, keep ur happy ass outta this thread 
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Wot if he was my first love, but we broke up and i started talking to another guy for a while, but then got back with my first love? Then he’s like my first and third loves rite :Dhehe!..But perhaps ur rite especially if ur talking about falling in love at a young age, like in high school:blush:
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Kuch nahi, jsut that I wasted my first love on some bullshiit... koi faida nahin tha..
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Sara: here is what you do. Competely delete him from your memory. He was never your first love. The next guy whom you will fall in love with is going to be your first love. And, in my dictionary, first love is when it is mutual. Just hit the delete button and relax:)
You deserve better and the guys and friends you are coming across lately, are all LOSERS!!!
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I been tryin to tell myeslf that for ages but as soon as i start to hav a lil bit of hope and start to believe it, it hits me in teh tummy again 
And it’s hard to delete em when u c those people every damn day!!!
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No ur not slow, i think it’s better in college cos ur more mature…my first love was in college too…but hey, forget ur first love…it’s true love that counts…
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Sara, if you believe it was a waste than why waste more time on thinking about it????
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Well don’t u think i already know that??? :o That’s why i said it was a waste, coz it wasn’t mutual 
Learn to read !!!
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Oh darling, its never mutual until he brings himself to take his behind to your home and talk to your father about marrying you.
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sara,
been there, done that... and although i was upset at the time, time is a healer and i learnt to accept is was not to be.
..and on the off chance we bump into one another, we have that understanding that was our past and life goes on... and here we are years later still friends.
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You will learn from it. Don’t delete it from your memory. Use it as a life lesson. Take something positive out of your experience. I’m sure you learned a lot about yourself that you didn’t know before he came into your life. You probably also learned what you like, what you want, what you don’t like, what you can’t handle … all these minor yet important things … you must have gotten something that you can use to your benefit in the future out of this experience.
There will be a time in your life when you will look back on this period and not feel a single thing. Just focus on other things and keep yourself busy with your art/fashion designing, friends, family, school, GS 
… trust me, you will move on … but you need to genuinely try and let go. 
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Howdy Sara, I'm so sorry to hear about your lost love, but don't let people tell you to just forget about him, believe me, you NEVER forget your first love. A time will come when you won't yearn for him anymore, but you will always remember him. Like Mehnaz said, just chalk it off to experience, whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger, and other cliches.
In the mean time, immerse yourself in other things, surround yourself with goofy friends, go to the movies, go to the mall and shop, cook, clean, study, read a book (no romance novels, haraaam haraaam), and basically try to keep your mind off of him.
I'm not a girl, but am told that a good passionate cry once in a while helps. I know it doesn't help me saying it but it WILL get better.
Cheers!
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Er okay i'm over it. Thanks!!! :)
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What if you have to put a physical blockade to stop said person. Is it still love?
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wel like some ppl said it ain't love if it's mutual and if it's mutual u wudn't be blockin them now wud u :p
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Stop the said person from what? 