Re: Romance or friendship?
is marriage just sex though? i mean if they disagree about everything then i wouldn’t want such a marriage. I feel like that whole opposites attract thing rarely works out. there should be some commonality/compatibility if not in terms of likes atleast in terms of behavior.maybe i’m just different, but i would rather be alone then go through a marriage where there’s an argument/fight every hour 
i just feel like if i’m with a man that’s the total opposite of me and we disagree about everything, there’s no understanding/caring between us and the only thing we have is that initial feeling of being “in love”, it will fizzle out and absolutely nothing will be left. that love thing can only take so much and then that dream bubble bursts.
if you look at the marriages that have lasted 40+ yrs there’s a lot more than just the romantic words, flowers, superficial stuff.