Re: Romance or friendship?
but see with this, if you’re in love with the guy but nothing else is there in terms of a strong foundation for the relationship then i just feel like that initial feeling of “love” will fizzle out. i mean that’s a lot of pressure on “love” where everything the relationship is about is based on this “in love” state that i’m supposed to be in.
i think in the second case the sizzling chemistry/passion/intensity can be created if the comfort level exists and there is caring there since both are friends. friends can fall in love it happens all the time in arranged marriage scenarios and that attraction can happen. most things in life aren’t so black and white