Romance or friendship?

[queen_24]

Re: Romance or friendship?

@Sehrysh

Would you rather be:

In love with your partner (get the romantic words, flowers, gifts from them) but the two of you don’t have very much in common and can’t really talk about your work/interests/friends

OR

Friends with your partner, where you can talk about EVERYTHING, you see the world the same way but there’s no sizzling chemistry between you and you’re “comfortable” with each other?

Or maybe better put, would you rather love your partner or be “in love” with your partner - assuming you had to choose. between the two options.

I am IN LOVE with my partner where I can talk about EVERYTHING!!

Who said, what friends can discuss, couples can’t… I discuss every single thing with him, even I am tooooooooooo much comfortable with him, we dont need to think a thousand times to discuss topics which most of the couples cant!!
I remember, one day, I told him, “dear, say we are friends too” and he bluntly said “NO, we are not, we are just hubby and wifey” and that turned me off for a moment.. then I said, why can’t we be friends?? and he said, “..because friends dont share that much..that we do!!” and I was like yeah, he was right!! we were not friends, we were more than that!! some may not get it…but you need to think too deep to be agreed with it