What is the role that a daughter plays in her parents household after marriage especially if Brother’s wife lives in the same household?.
What if her one of her parent is dependent on her for example taking to doctor or shopping as they are not able to go themselves or there is no other option than daughter taking them?
how often should she visits them???
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ummm i guessing you probably wanted to post this thread in life&relationships instead of here.......you would get more answers there.
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my mistake.my computer is causing problems!! who can move it to life and relationship.
thanks
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i say ur as much as ur parents daughter has ur brother is their son. i am living the same situation as u. its hard i tell u. but make sure u make ur parents realize its always daughters who take care of them when needed. sons always run off with their wives. my advise to u is to keep out of there personal relationships (ex. ur mom and bhabi) if they have arguments don't get involved. but keep on doing what pleases ur mom like shopping and taking care of her so she stays happy.
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bhabi se phir jhagra hova kia? i agree with abassi. visit often, help around as needed but don't interfere. u r a part of the family and it will always be that no matter how many new ppl keep adding. so accept n respect new member n keep doing ur duty.
Re: role of a daughter in her parents household
What is the role that a daughter plays in her parents household after marriage especially if Brother's wife lives in the same household?.
What if her one of her parent is dependent on her for example taking to doctor or shopping as they are not able to go themselves or there is no other option than daughter taking them?
how often should she visits them???
I believe that daughter visiting parents house and bhai & bhabi living with your parents is completely a separate issue. A daughter can visit her parents house as many times as she wants. But the daughter should not interfere in bhaya bhabi matters and how the bhabi is managing her house hold and in the relationship between her mom and bhabi. Because that only results in spoiling the relationships. The daughter should just be there for her mom and dad , spend quality time with the family and should not expect the bhabi to do her khidmat.
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Ideally role should not change. Daughter should be responsible to take care of parents as much as Son is but unfortunately that does not happen.
My own sister does no do that some times. Not that she loves our parents any less but sometimes she give priority to her in-laws over parents may be to be politically correct and this is bone of contention b/w us on many occasions. From simple things like calling them on weekly basis (parents are in Pakistan and we are in Canada) to sending them stuff.
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Brother’s wife does not have any responsibilities for your parents… it should either be your brother or you who takes care of your parents. It is the brother’s duty to take out time and take them to the doctor or shopping.
My parents are my responsibility, not my bhabi’s or my husband’s 
Re: role of a daughter in her parents household
i say ur as much as ur parents daughter has ur brother is their son. i am living the same situation as u. its hard i tell u. but make sure u make ur parents realize its always daughters who take care of them when needed. sons always run off with their wives. my advise to u is to keep out of there personal relationships (ex. ur mom and bhabi) if they have arguments don't get involved. but keep on doing what pleases ur mom like shopping and taking care of her so she stays happy.
yes. my SIL can not drive and has medical condition due to which she has to be in the presence of someone and she also have small childrens.
i am finding it hard to balance as if i live seperately, i have to not just look after my family but take SIL and mum to doctors and shopping etc and i have my own child too. i dont mind doing as i have been doing for several years.
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bhabi se phir jhagra hova kia? i agree with abassi. visit often, help around as needed but don't interfere. u r a part of the family and it will always be that no matter how many new ppl keep adding. so accept n respect new member n keep doing ur duty.
wat made you assume we always fight???
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What MIA said..
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As a daughter...you share your parents' responsibilities with your other siblings. Your bhabi (or if you're the bhabi)...is responsible for her own parents.
Just because daughter is married doesnt mean bhabi should be doing it all. She could but its the daughter's farz.
Re: role of a daughter in her parents household
As a daughter...you share your parents' responsibilities with your other siblings. Your bhabi (or if you're the bhabi)...is responsible for her own parents.
Just because daughter is married doesnt mean bhabi should be doing it all. She could but its the daughter's farz.