Re: road trip but with issues
You guys couldnt take a few more samosas for your phupo and your cousins?
wow how u assumed that we didnt take somasa's for her kids. when we go in a group, we take food for every single individual that will be joining us.
i was just giving example of her she thinks.
Re: road trip but with issues
wow how u assumed that we didnt take somasa's for her kids. when we go in a group, we take food for every single individual that will be joining us. i was just giving example of her she thinks.
Seems like you have some kind of agenda against your phupoo , you have answer to every question and are trying to prove that she is evil. Everybody is saying you have no obligation to do anything for her. Just leave her alone and enjoy your vacation and your trip . She would do the same, the way she and your phuppa have planed it.She knows people are going to them park , her husband cannot afford it still she wants to visit her brother and her nieces and nephews , do not take this right away from her please.
Re: road trip but with issues
Seems like you have some kind of agenda against your phupoo , you have answer to every question and are trying to prove that she is evil. Everybody is saying you have no obligation to do anything for her. Just leave her alone and enjoy your vacation and your trip . She would do the same, the way she and your phuppa have planed it.She knows people are going to them park , her husband cannot afford it still she wants to visit her brother and her nieces and nephews , do not take this right away from her please.
I have no agenda against her. but i was angry on her. she is not poor; but she does not want to spend money.
her husband, he has money to buy all latest flat screen TVs, hard drives and cars; but he too never wants to spend money on his kids.
anyway i talked to her and told her if they are not buying tickets she should consider not going as it will badly impact on her kids and she agreed.
Re: road trip but with issues
Well surely the latest TV and the car is not only the husband's and will also be used by the rest of the family as well. Anyhow.....it's their problem (as a family) and not anyone else's. That said, enjoy your activities...and let them figure out how they want to spend a day at home.
***Moreover keep in mind that if you had paid for their tickets.......they may not pay for their own food and other things...which tend to be pretty expensive at theme parks. Had this family joined you........their behavior may have prevented you from enjoying the theme park....and in that way it can even be seen as a "behtari" that they won't be going with you.
Re: road trip but with issues
Good to see a positive outcome.
And for the person who stated you have an agenda against your aunt (phupooo?), I did not read it that way at all. From the example, what stood out was your aunt bought water bottles for her kids only. Assuming she did not have money for buying water bottles for everyone (which I do understand is a false assumption), she should have given the water bottles to her nephews/nieces first, and not her kids. Giving water bottles to her kids and not to you guys smacks of pretty self-absorbed behavior. So I get what you were trying to say,