Forever I and I am sure many of you, have been hearing this that the rizq is from the qismat of the woman and that children are from the qismat of the man…
And so many people have told me this, so I want to know first hand from Quran or Sunnah where this particular setup mentioned or even if it’s part of Islam or just mere rubbish…
I believe its a saying of Hazrat Ali (ra) but please don't quote me on this.
Children are of marad ki kismat, becuase our tukhm decides if the child born will be male or female. Contrary to common belief that if someone is not having a son, its the wife's fault.
Though in the bigger picture, its Allah's Fazal that decides rizaq and children.
Much of it is part of the superstitious beliefs that originate from fantasy world of hindu culture.
If income was kismat of the woman and children kismat of the man, then why are there couple who don't have children and if the man marries another woman, they have kids? Agar itni hee kismat thee to pehli se kion nahi huey?