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Originally posted by Farwa:
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Didnt she say successful,educated? 
Anyway massi degas’s already done with ..remember? 
dont remember where i was …i realized life was a game…more seriously i took things…the harder the rules became..
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Originally posted by moona:
**ok folks...here it goes:
I am female, 27 yrs old, American-born and raised yet I maintain my Pakistani culture and heritage, Punjabi, I am 5'5', 130lbs, olive skintone, brown shoulder-length hair, I live in NJ, work as a Human Resources Coordinator with a company and am doing my MBA part-time in the evenings. I am attractive. Now my dilemma is this: all my friends are getting married to successful, educated, attractive men and I think that;s it's about time for me too but the right one hasn't come along yet??? Any advice, suggestions???**
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LOL@ I am attractive... I'll believe that when a picture pops up in IMAGE GALLERY !
As for the rest of it..... I mean how BORING can u women get?? every jill and jane, or in this case moona and paaro, wants the same run-o-the-mill ya to banker ho, ya phir broker ho, aur gaaree ho, aur ghar ho....... doesn't matter what the dude stands for in life, if he looks like pee wee herman or not, even overlooked is the fact that theyre fat balding, high on cholesterol, dollar junkies........AAAARGH what a truck load o horse manure!!
Are u saying that you wouldn't even CONSIDER a nice decent bloke who is charming and attractive and is capable of satisfying you in more ways than one,..... but is a CHEF ?? (for example that is... even though I can cook very well, I dont do it for money hehe)
ANSWER ME WOMAN ...... FOR THE LOVE OF GOD... ANSWER ME:p
(the end sentence has the sole purpose of enticing a snaring reply from all corners of gupshup!!!!)
OYE KEE HAAL HE KUTTAEYAA?? ref: previous signature!
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Originally posted by moona:
**ok folks...here it goes:
I am female, 27 yrs old, American-born and raised yet I maintain my Pakistani culture and heritage, Punjabi, I am 5'5', 130lbs, olive skintone, brown shoulder-length hair, I live in NJ, work as a Human Resources Coordinator with a company and am doing my MBA part-time in the evenings. I am attractive. Now my dilemma is this: all my friends are getting married to successful, educated, attractive men and I think that;s it's about time for me too but the right one hasn't come along yet??? Any advice, suggestions???**
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Have you tried the desi events? There are quite few Pakistani organizations which are having parties in NJ during the break I believe (there is one on the 29th that I am aware of).
Of course, it also depends on how many "features" you seek in a guy. Pick things that you feel are essential to you and remove those that are not. and then see if there are people around you who fit the bill. Sometimes, its the stone thats not noticed that turns into a diamond at the right time.
Double roti = Stop picking on people just cause you can. As much as she may be looking for a particular kind of person, its her perogative. You have your own choices and there are plenty of men I know who drink and smoke and fool around yet seek a virgin who doesnt do any of those when it comes time of get hooked. So please stop berate the women for what they seek.
And dont forget, the guy is supposed to provide for the woman completely financially and if the only person who can do that is a docter or a banker or broker, then so be it.
Hmcq
Originally posted by Khanzada:
Yeh service sirf insanon tak mehdood hai? You know kaafi saarey, gadhay, ghoray, cats, etc. etc. bhi mojoud hain…un ka bhi dil hai..umangain hain…jazbat hain…kuch to khayal karo doston? 
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kiss ko kahrahay ho ?
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arnold ! khud to itnay "salikamand "ho kay shalwar ke sath nicker pahantay ho aur ideal ?
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aapni be to qualities batani thi na !! itni khubiyon wali ladki ke pass ik aur be khobe hogi jissay aqal kahtay hain !! aur woh be to kuch demand karay gi na !!!
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bilkul sahi kaha jal_pari bahen i totally agree with u…
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toba ye ladkay
BTW people ye service hai achi 
han apna rishta ho gaya hae na iss liay :rolleyes:
dont remember where i was …i realized life was a game…more seriously i took things…the harder the rules became..
hein hein kiss ka kiss ka mujhe be batao shaded excitment main uchal kudd
main be aaon gi shade attend karnay 
Main wafayen laaon gi aur yakeen tum lana
I guess I dont have to write myself into this, (read my tread in café "attention please")
anyway I hope people with get there couple trough this...
sjab ke djage howe taaroun ko bhie
neend a hi ghaie...
:rolleyes: hanie… is he guppie???
Farwa… no progress
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Take away love, and our earth is a tomb!
first of all farwa jee aap ko bhi pp007 aur destinee kee beemari lag gayee
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aur yaar now my bio data
My name is Danial (BABA KAUN)
AGE: 1018
COLOUR: PURPLE
RES: york grave yard
references supplied on request
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aisa “KAUN” kehta hai.
Hmmmm…app kae liyae bohat achi alien dhoondni parae gi farwa ko;) waiseh apni naaq waq ka naqsha bhi batadain taqae app hi ki nasal sae dhoondain
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Gham aur khushiyan hamain Khuda kae aur nazdeek ker daeti hain, hamain is baat ka yaqeen ho jata hai kae hamarae liyae jo rasta Khudawand kareem nae banaya hai, hamain sirif usi pae chalna hai aur ham apni merzi sae aik kadam idhar sae udhar nahin ker saktae.
May I suggest one: GammaDilation
Life main tEnSiOn!!!
:rolleyes:arae!!! had ker di app nae kuch to khayal karain!!!
yae rishta keranae ki thread, life partner dhoondnae ki, business partner nahin
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Gham aur khushiyan hamain Khuda kae aur nazdeek ker daeti hain, hamain is baat ka yaqeen ho jata hai kae hamarae liyae jo rasta Khudawand kareem nae banaya hai, hamain sirif usi pae chalna hai aur ham apni merzi sae aik kadam idhar sae udhar nahin ker saktae.
i think khoobsurat khoab is taking pp007’s place…
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Destiny grants us our wishes, but in its own way
in order to give us something beyond our wishes
oyeee!!!
hum dono yahan par logon kay rishtay to nahi banatay rehtay!!!
ab agar aap nay yeh naam day hi diya hay to aap kay liye try karoun gi… aram say mill jaye gi koi KAUNI…
Destiny grants us our wishes, but in its own way
in order to give us something beyond our wishes
Hi again...look, obviously you all don't know me so stop making silly berating comments. Maybe only the females can understand where I'm coming from...maybe. In answer to some replies, I DON'T seek a guy who's boring or unattractive...actually, just the opposite!!! However, he needs to have good education to be able to relate to me mentally and have a good job. I'm getting my MBA so it makes sense to me that I want someone of the same calibre or above. It would also be nice if I found a guy who was born or raised here from a young age...he can relate to me better since I was born here. It's a lot a person has to take into consideration when choosing a mate...and trust me folks, it's not cake..it is definitely not easy! May Allah forgive me for rejecting the guys that do come to my house...it's nothing against them personally but none seem to fit the criteria which I have laid out for myself. So folks, don't call me snobbish because I know what I want. I may be picky a bit but not snobbish. As for putting up a pic of myself on the post here, I don't think it is necessary. I am beautiful inside and out, and I, my family, and friends know that...that is what's important and what counts:)
nope yaarjee, let me try to convince him to be a member of gupshup…
wese idea acha hain…
sjab ke djage howe taaroun ko bhie
neend a hi ghaie…
Moona,
This topic has been discussed many times - mostly in family section. Here in cafe we take it very lightly. You have in very start of postings have told bout ur height weight and good looks that seems somewhat suspicious being an educated girl.
Ur friends being married to great guys should not be a problem to u as u should not compare ur hubby with anyone.
Attractiveness should be to u only and not merely a showpiece to show others. i dont know why u posted likethat here and what can we suggest..
As reards to many people suiting u at this time consider ur lucky since most of the time we are all dreaming of some magical rose
garden over the horizon-instead of enjoying the roses blooming outside our windows today. we all have flaws thats the beauty of humans..pic someone who is kind ,caring and not at all boring :)
in this market place of noises and reverberation
nobody hears and understands
a simple........silence!