Rishtay (relationships)

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@xonottrue

Hi guys,

I would like to know your views on the following:

Match made in heaven? Our partner is pre-written in our kismet?

OR

Do we choose? It is up to us? We write our kismet?

Lets say if we choose then why do people say that its already in our kismet? And if at all it is written in our kismet then why is it in our religion that a girl and a boy should be asked for their choice whether he or she really wants to marry this person or not?

It mostly comes from the older generation that rishtay to pehle say hi teh hotein hain etc… The reason behind them saying this could be because in older days they werent asked and were forced into marriage??

Can anyone help me clarify this issue?

Thanks guys..

I have a very brief and complete answer
will answer you but want to hear what other people say first..