Re: Rishtas abroad
Yup. Women would sign up for courses at my khala’s religious center just to look at girls for their boys. And then they would start enquiries with the teachers and prayer leaders. It was all fine and well (and the school was quite happy to oblige) until their questions got so obvious and gross that the school people were contemplating saying they did not provide match making services until they realised how unfair it was to girls who had no other opportunities. People just equate religious with dumb and docile these days.