Rishta talks?

[Paheli00]

Re: Rishta talks?

@AndyPandy

I hope it doesn’t bother him. But thank you very much. It helped. Kind of. I think I’m freaking out more though /:

You’re welcome! 2 Things:

1. This is not something you can hide from your husband…whoever that may be. If a guy is going to be bothered by it, then it’s better for YOU to find out before nikah than after.

2. You mentioned you have a counselor…I strongly urge you to seek out the counselor’s help in dealing with this stress. Also, I imagine it is hard for you to talk about this so IF you’re comfortable with it…..you can also let the guy know that you’d be willing to allow him to talk to your counselor (in your presence of course) if the guy has any questions/concerns regarding this. Most people haven’t dealt with cutting (desis are even worse) so they may have questions/misconceptions etc. The counselor will be in a better position to explain it (why people do it, how you have recovered etc.) to the guy than you since you will naturally be nervous.