Re: Rishta talks?
So he’s going to find is VERY soon….either on the wedding night or within days later about this.
Instead of having him find this out asap after the wedding where stress/emotions are high, the entire family is there and WILL notice if there is a change in his mood, and plus having him feel like he was “tricked” or lied to…….for your own sake, I think you should tell him after a little while of getting to know one another. Let him know that your parents and others don’t know this and you would appreciate him not revealing this detail to ANYONE….even if he chooses to break off the engagement after hearing this. Also let him know the reason behind you sharing this info. with him before the nikah (ie. you want to give him the option of backing out if this is something that bothers him, and don’t want him to feel that he was lied to).
Oh and do it at least a month before nikah. Don’t wait until the nikah is like 3 days away.