Rishta talks moving along fast?

[Captain_Obvious]

Re: Rishta talks moving along fast?

@ConfusedMe

1 We have only been talking for 1,5 months, but he is coming to visit in a month or so, and the families want us to get engaged or nikkafied. Is this too early? I feel like I can’t “let him go”, and wouldn’t mind getting engaged or nikkahfied, but one side of me is questioning my self, wether it is to early or not.

I don’t think so.

2 If we get engaged or nikkafied, how do I tell my co-workers and non-desi friends? I can’t go from having no fiance/husband, to having one. Or can I? If you live in the west, how did you go about it? I just cannot be bothered to take up the whole arranged/forced/love-marriage discussion. I know that if I tell them the truth they will want to discuss it, and they won’t be happy for me.

I don’t see why this is even an issue.