Rishta talks moving along fast?

[Paheli00]

Re: Rishta talks moving along fast?

@ConfusedMe

1 We have only been talking for 1,5 months, but he is coming to visit in a month or so, and the families want us to get engaged or nikkafied. Is this too early? I feel like I can’t “let him go”, and wouldn’t mind getting engaged or nikkahfied, but one side of me is questioning my self, wether it is to early or not.

There is a BIG difference between an engagement and a nikah. Engagement is a promise to marry. Nikah is actually getting married. So which one is it? Do they want an engagement or the nikah?

My personal opinion is that it is too early for an actual nikah. You have never even met this guy in person! What’s the rush? If they want to do a formal engagement…that should be fine. But the nikah should be delayed until BOTH sides are prepared to go all the way…meaning they’re ready to do the nikah AND the rukhsati/reception etc.