Rishta talks moving along fast?

Re: Rishta talks moving along fast?

I know a few people who have great jobs and don’t have any higher education. No college degree at all. What happened is they fell into their career paths at a young age, gained A LOT of experience and have made themselves valuable in another way.

This guy doesn’t have to fit into some cookie cutter mold here…no one really does. OP cannot define her ideal partner according to what other people think is suitable. One of my high school class mates…her father was an extremely successful and sharp businessman. His education: 8th grade. Never even made it to high school. He had me baffled because you couldn’t tell.

Education IS important but an actual college setting is not for everyone. Some - with no documented higher education - end up sounding much more educated than people with PhD’s at times. Like the OP mentioned…she’s more educated than this guy but they seem to work really well together. How? If he was a backward, narrow-minded, illiterate guy…her parents wouldn’t have entertained him. She would not be confused about him. He would have been rejected a long time ago.

He could be in a hurry for many reasons.

To clarify::::::: I am not saying go and marry him. What I am saying is…if he’s smart, ambitious, responsible and you like him…there’s no reason to shoot him down. Keep getting to know him.