Re: rishta “signs”?
Sorry, did not mean to come across as “freaking out”. I"m just confused and wanted opinions since a third person is often the best judge. Especially since no one seems to go the arranged route anymore so I’m at a complete loss as to what normal behavior/etiquette is.
They want the guy to get married next year, since he’s abroad trying to finish up some work right now. Our families have had extended conversations because this has been ongoing for about 6 months on the phone (though through a 3rd party–a family member of his who initially approached us for him). He’s in between jobs rihgt now so is willing to move anywhere. My plans are undecided but I’m leaving the west coast for sure in 1-2 years depending on where I get into school. They were told numerous times that I was adamant about school and my mom mentioned it to them numerous times as well since she was initially very hesitant about entertaining a proposal. In fact, that’s what most of our conversation was about when they came over too.
I guess what I was wondering (in general, not just in this case) is that do people typically give some indication as to their level of interest in proceeding further or is it just a pokerface the entire time theyre there and then they let them know later?
shukran