Rishta Process: What Do You Want

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Re: Rishta Process: What Do You Want

@PyariCgudia

What if the rishta service were to call job references to get an idea about personality at work? Would people be open to that? Or have pinpoint references in each community , a network of folks across the USA in different cities that can look someone up and verify them in each community, so that if a person is KNOWN to be an alcoholic in the community, that could be easily found out through the rumor mill? Or I guess that wouldn’t be fair? I lived in a dorm myself through College, God knows what folks say about me.

This is pretty unfair. People in community or large circle do not know the circumstances of a person, what he/she goes through everyday, his/her history and the extent of his/her miseries and sufferings. So 95% opinion will be rubbish. In the end you are going to spend your life with that person so you should make your own judgment rather than relying on other peoples’ opinion who hardly matter. Vested interests also play part, I have this experience.

Also this kind of thing will create more trouble for girls than men considering what desis think of the girls who talk to strangers, laugh a lot, are fashionable and have male friends. Also her girl friends will also not say good things about her, we know the intense female jealousy.