Re: Rishta of an Alcoholic!
Society in general teaches us to be good, kind and fair to others. This girls thinks she is doing just that by giving this man a change. What she doesn't realize is that by trying to give this guy a fair chance, she is actually putting herself in danger. Yes, alcoholism is very dangerous. When one loses their senses, they are capable of anything. Just because she will be his "wife", that doesn't mean that he will be fair towards her. In a case like this, there is nothing wrong with being selfish and putting yourself first. This man will wreck her life. She cannot 'save' him. Only HE can save himself. If he's not willing or intersted in changing his ways, he won't.
Men and women do not change, unless they actually see there is a problem and seek help. Nobody can 'make' another person change.
Jaanwar: I don't think she wants your sympathy. If she goes ahead with this marriage and realizes she was wrong, trust me, she will hate herself for making the wrong decision for the rest of her life. Living with this kind of guilt is hard enough without others bashing you at the same time.