Salaamz this game is sorta out of my leauge, basically the fella wants to get married he’s been living in the Uk and has a citizenship and want’s to marry his dream girl.
Problem is she is well educated but lives in Pakistan. Fella wants wedding to be done in the UK and for her to come here.
How does he go about it?
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can't go to Pakistan for his 'dream' girl?
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If he's got citizenship he should go to Pakistan, have a nikkah done then call her here and have his dream wedding!!!
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Nope he's been to Pakistan before and knows it wont work, cant discuss the past situations.
he's thought about travelling over and getting married there and nothing would make him more happy but he doesn't want to then be away from new wife and wait for her to get citizenship etc...
Is there a way to get his dream girl here..... for example get her to come here as a student or something?
I'd leave UK and go to sahara dessert for my dream girl If needed.
need to say more?
Salaamz this game is sorta out of my leauge, basically the fella wants to get married he's been living in the Uk and has a citizenship and want's to marry his dream girl.
Problem is she is well educated but lives in Pakistan. Fella wants wedding to be done in the UK and for her to come here.
How does he go about it?
I'd leave UK and go to sahara dessert for my dream girl If needed.
need to say more?
agreeed :)
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what happened to ‘I’d go to the end of the world for you’ or something along those lines!
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Yeh temme about it lol ^``
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Flirt with a guppan. Harass her. Fool her. Marry her and then she can complain also in Life 1 :D
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^ He's talking about his 'dream' girl, CM... not nightmare girl.
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aww....your friend also has plans for his DREAM WEDDING..i thought its a girls thing to have plans for their DREAM DAY.
kher if he has that much money to spend...he can have weddings at both places. sari baat paisay ki or ayaash honay ki hai.
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As far as I know...the wedding is the girl's event and should be held where she wants and lives.
Tell him to marry her in Pak, sponsor her, bring her here and then have his valima here.
As for the other issue...he will just have to manage somehow.
As far as I know...the wedding is the girl's event and should be held where she wants and lives.
Tell him to marry her in Pak, sponsor her, bring her here and then have his valima here.
As for the other issue...he will just have to manage somehow.
logical answer
like mostly everyone said, the wedding is the girls event... the valima is the guys event...he can have te wedding in pakistan and a small re do in UK (which i am not sure how it works in a muslim wedding) and a valima in the UK... he has to realize she is getting to him too..he is not marrying himself...the golden rule of any relationship starts now...compromise, and working together!
Salaamz this game is sorta out of my leauge, basically the fella wants to get married he's been living in the Uk and has a citizenship and want's to marry his dream girl.
Problem is she is well educated but lives in Pakistan. Fella wants wedding to be done in the UK and for her to come here.
How does he go about it?
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Aaah you guys didn’t understand the fellows dilema. His dream girl lives pretty much alone in pak with her mother and is a pretty village lass type. The guy is very rich, brave and kind hearted etc, But last time i went with him to Pakistan and i had to save his life, becuase just about every other fellow in the town wanted him dead… I dont know the whole story but i’m guessing the girls cousins don’t want her married to another…typical desi story.
If my friend go’s back i’d have to take my rifle and fight of all his enemies as a friend should, but the guy doesnt want to cause a bloodbath… hence he would rather hold a wedding in the UK.
I would gladly cross a desert for my dream girl, and no doubt so would my friend but this is pretty high brow stuff. It needs some serious thought. Personally last time he went there the village boycotted him so much he was in tears. Thing is the girl and the mother want the rishta but the rest of the jelous fammily won’t let it happen. 
So best solution seems to be the idea of geting them all out of there…
Failing that i’ll have to go back with him and unleash some 
justice.
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Does the wedding have to be in the village?
Can't they have a small ceremony somewhere else in Pakistan, and then she waits there until immigration comes through? And then do a reception in UK when she is over.
Although longer termif it's just the girl and her mum then the mother will be alone in a potentially hostile environment, so she has to be factored in as well.
Not sure how u can get both out right away, student visa for the girl is a possibility but not sure if her mother will get a visit visa easily.
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Ahh, the good old "Fight for honour"
If he is rich, then Im sure he can let the money talk and buy the cousins and if nothing works "Kidnap" :)
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Hmmmmmm all options are open at this point, kidnap?.. now wheres the honour in that? 
Have considered having the wedding in some other part of Pakistan, but trouble is you know what these wars are like over rishta’s… Just my luck my friend has to be besotted with a girl from hell-town…
Never mind… i’ll see if theres a way of having it done here, but i wouldn’t mind going back just for a fight 
dont want anyone to get hurt though just the bad guys but it never works out that clean.
Money is a good idea bribe them… but i have never trusted people who worship money besides whats to say they’ll take the money and attack anyway?
have thought about getting police support etc using the law as a weapon… but police are corrupt and have avoided that village for 30 years!
Thanks for the replies though guys. I’ll just have to do my best and see what we can do… the powers that be fail us so it’s down to the good old
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Thats a tough one. But I suggest the person should come to pakistan for the wedding if he so badly wants to get married. . . and if he/she doesn't approve I suggest you find another rishta because it may be hard.