asalamwalekum,
I know this may seem a bit odd to few people but I am searching a proposal for mum reason is I want to see her happy and settled with a partner , I had always seen her suffering with my father as he had psychological issues she never had the joy of having a partner .So as i myself am married now being 27 I have started search for her would really appreciate if you people could help me regarding this.
we are searching in Usa (typically houston ,chicago,florida) because she has visa and we have lived in chicago before and she keeps on going to houston in every 5 months the second place we are looking at is karachi she can live either in Usa or in karachi .
First please tell me about good matchmakers in USA and in karachi who can help me with this purpose .
second tell me about good matrimonial sites where i can register doesnt matter if its paid .
I tried finding out about online but i really have no idea where to start and which are worthwhile sites,and also i dont know about any good match maker ,btw my mum is 47 any help in this regard i will be really thankful.
it is kind of sad that so many people have viewed but none have replied ,i joined this forum for the sake of seeking info regarding this as i was really stressed and upset as i am unable to help my mum due to the num of fake agencies etc i dont know where to approach,if anyone has any info regarding this please for the sake of Allah share it .
Wa alaikum salaam..
I can’t help you much but one thing I advise anyone looking seriously for a decent match is to avoid the matchmaking sites as these are not very safe considering chances of fraud..try to get a suitable rishta thru reference and people you personally know and can trust.
I know there are couple of guys in my family who years after their first wife passed away and kids got married, they remarried to other women of their age. So it happens. But not sure how it works out. I am very skeptical about dating site. I think it would be better to look through mosques or aunties
i know matrimonial sites aernt much trustworthy ,someone said try rishta keranay wali aunties or matchmakers i am trying to find reliable ones but no i have no idea ,i just heard about two mrs qureshi and mrs khan and then heard bad reviews about them .So i am trying to find some reliable match maker or aunty for this purpose.
Try checking out all the urdu local newspapers they usually have some Women who’re doing the Rishta in the community.
Perhaps you can have luck there, best of luck.
Try Canadian ones too (urdu neewspapers of the community)
those rishta aunties just run a commercial busniess the ones in dawn … btw i heard about ayesha qureshi/humayun who is running this rishta making in usa has anyone tried her services
Try Mumtaz Qursehi in Karachi. She will only link you to the families looking for rishtas, but you will need to do the background checks yourself. She is the only one in Karachi with some good case studies and i recommend you to give it a try.
Please contact Mrs. Khan and Mrs. Mumtaz qureshi. These two ladies are in karachi and they have good proposals from all over the world. Infact Mrs. Mumtaz qureshi has a sister who does matrimonial work in USA as well. You can google her. Her numbers are on the internet.
Secondly you could try some facebook pages. One of them is Pakistani matrimony worldwide. Its a ladies only group with many decent proposals from all over the world.
Thirdly, try and leave rest in the hands of God.
Alhamduillah i got a decent match via mrs. khan and the facebook page.
All the best to you dear
Mrs. khan and Mrs. Mumtaz were terrific.
We were in karachi for vacatiions and they showed us many good proposals.
Even from Norway and Australia. We found one for our sister through consistent efforts and a lot of dua. dont worry.
Just try them also the faceook page pakistani matrimony worldwide. I actually saw a post of a well-educated 55 years old man in US looking for marriage. They have proposals of all Aages and countries. May Allah help us and everyone in finding suitable proposals.
I assume your mother is willing for re-marriage, and you are not doing it on your own/forcing it on her.
If she is willing, would it be an option for her to search for someone on her own? PErhaps on social matrimonial sites? That would be far more practical, as she is older and wiser than you, and would be a better judge of who is more suitable for her.
she has asked me to search on sites as well and i am doing that ,it a joint decision whoever gets interested i connect them with her.I have payed and registered on shadi.com but mostly ppl are fake there.
