Re: Rishta for SIL
Hmm ok. Maybe after a divorce she is just more cautious of involvin people in her personal life. Though you have a very close rishta with her but still maybe she is not that comfortable with you. When someone goes through a bad relationship or anything bad...for next time they are just more careful.
It's nice of you to feel her pain but you did your part and told her about talking to this other person regarding her rishta. If she was interested she would have talked it further with you but seems like she is not so just let it be. And try and keep your distance with her on such issues and maybe one day if she asks you why you are not participating than let her know how you feel about her behavior. If it is bothering you too much you can talk to her even right now about since you feel you had a comfortable relationship with her before so just ask her what her issue is now?.
Actually I have never had a comfortable relationship with her. She created much fuss for me but did in ways that my hybby never got to know what was going on.
I just feel sorry for her lonlieness and wanted to help her finding a good man. She sometimes seems very naïve and I fear that somebody can just misuse her with regard to marriage.
On the other hand I have actually experienced myself that she is not that naïve as she might seem or look like and therefore maybe I am not being a bad person if I don’t assist her in her rishta search.
The thing is that hubby and were thinking to invite this baji and her husband over and then invite SIL too so we could promote the rishta thing..but when she invited them over and didn’t invite us it just seems like she would rather have her things going without us..unless she needs help