Re: Rishta but is he just after a British passport?
Whoosh! That is the sound of my post going over your head.
slap down a prenup in front of him that will essentially annhilate him if he were to leave within a 10 year period after marriage without agreement with his wife.
If he walks away from the rishtaa, you know what was important to him
marriage is a social contract so plz dont make it like a business contract.
reasonable due diligence and background check should be made. but to introduce such kind of covenants for marriage is not a gud idea and may entail lack of trust on the part of both parties.
All Pakistani guys want the british passport. And we specifically look for unattractive and weak women to hit on, romance and then abuse after we get the passport. Oh yeah we are liable to cheat, before, during and after the marriage.
Did I miss anything?
I guess this is what the Thread Opener is trying to say...
if he accepts the proposition ............... wud the gal be ready to move to pakistan
galz born and raised in UK has to face real difficulties to be a gud wife , specially if she marries a Pakistani guy.
Yes, cos us girls are so difficult..
*marriage is a social contract so plz dont make it like a business contract. *
reasonable due diligence and background check should be made. but to introduce such kind of covenants for marriage is not a gud idea and may entail lack of trust on the part of both parties.
So what is the nikah contract all about then? Someone has desi culture confused with Islam.. Muslims can stipulate almost anything they like (within reason) in their nikah contracts.. he can't take another wife (without divorcing her), he must allow her to visit parents three times a month, he must not leave the country for more than a certain length of time etc.
Those of you asking why she's even considering a guy from Pakistan and not just finding one whose already in the UK and has citizenship, please refer to the hundreds of threads about how difficult it is for us pakistani girls born and bought up in the UK to find equivalent guys as their mummys take them back home to find a nice compliant Pakistani bride, leaving a surplus of well educated, decent girls in the UK unable to find any rishtas.
Or just search for all posts by PCG and you will get the general idea...
slap down a prenup in front of him that will essentially annhilate him if he were to leave within a 10 year period after marriage without agreement with his wife.
If he walks away from the rishtaa, you know what was important to him
PCG, just wondered would you ever consider a rishta from Pakistani guy as described above?
Seriously. :k:
Sooner desi men realize this, the better. They are diluting out their own gene pool with this mess, and then these same people turn around and are so irritated when their daughters can’t find good rishtas.
I’ve talked to some desi uncles around here and even THEY agree the guys out these days are total schmucks.
Re: Rishta but is he just after a British passport?
Put it this way. You are responsible for your own damn situation. Quit blaming imaginary others for your problems.
Edit: Quit telling desi men what to do for god's sake. Desi men can have whatever woman they want simply because they are fewer men in our community these days than women. We get to pick and choose what we want. We are happy with what we have....atleast I assume they are.
So the problem is definitely not us. It is you.
Re: Rishta but is he just after a British passport?
then get even with them nd let mommy get nice compliant groom from back home..
girl powerr! yeah! :)