Rishta but is he just after a British passport?

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@ajuba

My friend (british born) has been introduced to a guy from pakistan who is in the UK on a woek permit. He has a decent job and is well educated (unless he’s lying about all that). my question is how can she find out if he’s intentions are honourable or if his main reason for wanting to marry her is to get permanent stay?

I know no one comes with a life time guarantee but there are so many horror stories around of girls getting dumped after the guy gets his indefinate leave. What questions can you ask/background checks can you do to satisfy yourselves?

Guys from Pakistan: how offended would you be if you were questioned by a prospective brides family in this respect?

Tell him she wants to move to Pakistan after marriage to see his reaction.. or agree to marry him after if/when he gets it on his own merit..