Re: Rishta Aunties
money and beauty are the main things one looks at in arranged rishtas as you cannot tell someones personality unless you spend alot of time with them. when you’re in love with someone, you’re willing to look past those things but not when it’s something arranged. most people who ask rishta aunties to look for a match for their children ask for these same things; money, looks, and ‘good’ family. once those basic criteria are met, then you proceed with getting to know the guy/girl.
if one cannot find a a good rishta themselves, what makes them think a rishta aunty can find one? they don’t have magical powers. they go by what the people demand from them.
best way to find a spouse in my opinion is to find one yourself and not rely on anyone else.