I second this. There have been VERY few (I actually can’t recall any tbh) marriages between girls from here and guys back home that have been successful in our social circle. Be VERY clear about your expectations and MAKE SURE you talk to him alone about all the important things: clothing, whether you can meet up with your friends (especially males), what expectations are in terms of working, what about kids, plans to move back to Pak, etc etc. think about it before you commit to anything. Even guys from “progressive” backgrounds have very “traditional” outlooks when it comes to certain things so make sure that it’s all clear before you proceed