Start a thread about SIL and most girls will tell you how “evil” there bhabhi is. She does not do a thing in the house, disrespects their parents etc etc
Look at any thread on MIL, most will tell you of monstrous MIL that they have or someone in family has etc.
So what exactly is responsibility of DIL?
1..... please don't seek any advices from aunties , khalas , chachis etc etc, they only add fuel to the fire
2..... the whole married life is not as glamorous as the wedding day party/ event .........so be realistic
3..... in laws could never be yr real parents , so need to be more careful in fulfuling yr duties , more patient , more careful while choosing the words u say , and try giving more instead of expecting more.
4.... just like world is full of both good parents and bad ones ( yeah and parents say the same about kids) same is with in laws
5.... now the complaining part , i only makes yr own life miserable
6.... misunderstandings , distances & diffrences mostly arise due to lack of communication , so speak up
7.... try to share yr thoughts and yr experiences with yr husband and got to know what his point of view is , esp before making any drastic decision
8..... in vulnerable situations , support yr husband
9 .... don't forget that at the end of the day u'll be a MIL yrself ( yeah i mean what goes around comes around)
10....not sure about what to say ?? in serious situations like monter in laws ?, money matters ?, sharing the kitchen matter?
Re: Rights/Duties of DIL
I dont know what is her "responsibility" per se, but I think she should do whatever is in her means to treat them with respect, love, kindness. If she loves her husband then she should make the most effort to love them as well, and if she cannot love them, then at least treat them well. If they do not treat her well, this still does not give her the right to mistreat them. Words are easier than actions, yes I know, may Allah help us all to treat everyone in only the best ways, Ameen