Re: Right to choose .
I don't think I could stay with someone I had no chemistry with/attraction to. I think couples have to be compatible. If you are tiny and he is chubby and you are not attracted to him, then don't go for it. Idk why everyone expects women to compromise about looks. Men reject girls all the time due to their looks, even their moms reject girls solely due to looks. You can be picky in that department too!
PLus your attraction decreased due to his other behavior also. Hence, why worry about it. It is alo of things bothering you and do not let others force you into something you do not want to do. you will be the one married!!
What paheli said… YOU have to take control and decide.