Re: Right to choose .
You are right there is definitely more to a person than what they look like. I explained that it wasnt just his looks, because the other two guys interaction wise was the same and they are not “the most attractive guys in the world”. But I still felt that they were more compatible because of when they spoke & their goals and intrests seemed more on my wave length.
Also his sisters attitude n behaviour put me off.
And he wasn’t judging me on my awesome personality either was he?!
It’s a family situation so if I let it go further and then have the same ans I do now it will get complicated n they might accuse my family who tried to set this up of dragging things on etc & I don’t want anyone to go through that.
Also I’m not doing him a favor by choosing him am I?. It has nothing to do with the hair cut or clothes. The other guys I liked are avg looking .Beauty fades so I’m not going to base my decision on that. But I must be attracted to the person I’m going to spend the rest of my life with.
It took me a while but after reading what Paheli00 and others have said I realized I don’t have to apologize for not being attracted to a guy.