Right Reasons

[ShahreyarKhan]

Re: Right Reasons

no you cant think about something equally worst just because it makes you feel good rv

@redvelvet

I believe what Paheli meant was that “Haai sab ki shaadiyan ho gayi hain…sirf main akeli reh gai hoon”…“Oh no, I don’t have a guy in my life, I’m so incomplete”…are not the best reasons to get married.

Think about people who are divorced…or whose spouses are no longer alive. Kya woh laug mar gaye hain? Has life stopped moving for them? No. The problem is that centering your self-worth…your identity…your whole life on another person is not only gonna end up hurting you at some point…it will turn others off.

I’m not trying attack you or put you down. I have no such intentions. But your posts are exuding a needy vibe…even if you DON’T feel that way. I could be completely wrong and maybe you’re just asking general questions…but I wouldn’t be surprised if some readers feel the same way. If that’s the vibe you’re sending online…then it may also be picked up on in your real-life interactions with others…especially the opposite gender. We’re not always aware of how we come across to others. And I think that all of us (at various points) have appeared needy/clingy and most times it backfires.