For all essential purposes she is your ideal mate.
However she states if you two do get married she will not sleep with you for the first three years so you two can get to know each other.
You don’t know if this is a ploy or the truth. But the family has given you a day to decide. How do you factor in the lack of sex for three years vs the rest of the non-sexual elements of the woman.
Oh I forgot to add. Women I know you will comment regardless of the fact it is addressed to guys. Thank you for providing your extremely valuable input.
OMG something like this happened to a guy who lives near me!!!
He found out after the wedding. They went on honeymoon and everything. The guys mum noticed he was very withdrawn and upset after they came back from the honeymoon. Apparently the girl banned her hubby for 3 years. The wedding was arranged and everything listed in the original post.
The marriage only lasted 5 months. He is now happily married to someone else and they recently had a baby :)
For all essential purposes she is your ideal mate.
However she states if you two do get married she will not sleep with you for the first three years so you two can get to know each other.
You don't know if this is a ploy or the truth. But the family has given you a day to decide. How do you factor in the lack of sex for three years vs the rest of the non-sexual elements of the woman.
Regardless of my friends, sister and mom trying I have yet to find a girl with qualities 1 to 6 and likes me for me. So where does that leave me? In the place Partyslims was at a few moments ago.
Regardless of my friends, sister and mom trying I have yet to find a girl with qualities 1 to 6 and likes me for me. So where does that leave me? In the place Partyslims was at a few moments ago.
you remind me of a guy I knew from a decade or two ago........he was sharp, handsome and had all the admirable qualities that you do......I wonder what happened to him.....I think he married a russian girl and then the broke up......
you remind me of a guy I knew from a decade or two ago........he was sharp, handsome and had all the admirable qualities that you do......I wonder what happened to him.....I think he married a russian girl and then the broke up......
Just ***ing great. That is my future a russian mail order bride? Might as well starting ERP with that blonde from the US military in my gaming guild :Rolleyes: Thank you for dashing my hopes, dreams and sexual desires all in one go *sniff
For all essential purposes she is your ideal mate.
However she states if you two do get married she will not sleep with you for the first three years so you two can get to know each other.
You don't know if this is a ploy or the truth. But the family has given you a day to decide. How do you factor in the lack of sex for three years vs the rest of the non-sexual elements of the woman.
Firstly, I don't know any man who would agree to this (LOL....unless the "wife" allows him to sleep with another woman while she's "getting to know" her husband for 3 da*n years!). Yes I'm a woman but I do know plenty of guys (and I deal with A LOT men and their marriages at work).
That being said....the 3 parts I highlighted kind of contradict one other...don't they?
After all...if the woman tells you the she doesn't believe in having sex for 3 years AFTER marriage b/c she wants to get to "know" you...and you don't know if she's being honest or lying....and you don't already agree with her "view"....
In that case....do you really know the woman well enough to know that she'll make a good mother and that you two have similar views in life? If you feel that you can't trust her when it comes to this sex issue...then how do you know her well enough to trust her with your future children?
For all essential purposes she is your ideal mate.
However she states if you two do get married she will not sleep with you for the first three years so you two can get to know each other.
You don't know if this is a ploy or the truth. But the family has given you a day to decide. How do you factor in the lack of sex for three years vs the rest of the non-sexual elements of the woman.
Even though you don't require my valuable output ..but such a condition from a girl seems VERY unrealistic. Esp in an arranged affair! :p Because if this goes out it could be an obvious deal breaker.
wth.
