Reviving a loveless relation ~

[diwana]

Re: Reviving a loveless relation ~

@AbraCadabra

Many a times some of our relations go sour. Its not that we don’t talk to them anymore..they just become kind of monotonous & boring .. and eventually loveless.

This is some what the situation with me & my fiance. Right after we got engaged, we communicated so much via emails, chats, iphone apps, phone calls etc. and during those days had lots of arguments as well that eventually the relation seems to be a little dried up. Now we hardly communicate, the conversations are boring & a little drag on sort and both of us hardly initiate the conversation.

Anyway, the fact is established that yes we will be getting married in a few months time, Insha Allah and maybe extra useless communication drained the fun out at a very early stage. Is there any way that it can be brought back? brought back in a way that i don’t become clingy and instead the relation is kind of fresh?

P.S we are not frank enough to be lovey dovey sorts. Its a pretty formal relation still.

Golden rule:

Never talk a lot before marriage.

You used up all emotions of talking/communication before marriage.

Now the first night will be a dead silent night.