Re: Reviving a loveless relation ~
very understandable. the prospect of marriage is quite intimidating. and on emails and phone calls you aren’t actually looking at the person’s facial expressions to judge what did he/she say - like were they serious or was something said entirely in humor. things can always get badly misinterpreted and lead to silly arguments.
both of you are scared at the moment because in your mind you keep thinking if i would say this it could brew into another issuee…thus your relationship has become very formal and monotonous ..i would say give it time !
just get yourself busy in this exciting pre wedding prep time…when it would pass you would look back and regret if you didnt enjoy it! you would InshAllah have a life time with your fiance together ! Right now it would be best if you both keep minimal contact - not even forced conversations ! It would make both of you miss each other more and actually look forward to the time when you get married ! Meanwhile have fun with your siblings parents and friends and enjoy this singlehood period … hehe we all look back and be nostalgic about it later 