Lets take the example of this thread: http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-relationships/401239-husband-refuses-pro-create.html and reverse the roles.
Solid family. Enough money. Decent house. Husband wants kids. Wife does not want kids right now. She wants to have a bigger house, wants him to get his promotion and stuff before they have a kid.
Would you agree with forcing her to have a child?
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^^ I will not waste anymore time on her and get a new wife...
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I think she should consider his request...Im sure he has reasons for wanting a child...which isnt a bad thing by the way. At some point, most couples want children.
If life is going well for the couple and they're stable, then I dont see why she wouldnt want to have children. A promotion can be had later on too.
She should consider his needs and dreams.
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I would not agree with forcing under any circumstance, she is the one carrying the baby. Definitely they need to talk and understand her reasons. Are they newly married? Does she want to spend sometime carefree before having kids? Could be a # of reasons. But at some point she would have to be on the same page otherwise major issues....
Solid family. Enough money. Decent house. Husband wants kids. Wife does not want kids right now. She wants to have a bigger house, wants him to get his promotion and stuff before they have a kid.
Would you agree with forcing her to have a child?
sounds like something i'd say. no need for "forcing" a child, that can cause the marriage to go down the drain. there's nothing that good communication can't solve. if the husband wants a child that bad, then it can be considered.
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Not forcing but the woman needs to consider a few things
What are their ages? (women have more time with IVF and stuff but there is a risk to having kids later than 35, more after 40)
How much time would a promotion / house take? 5 years? 10 years?
As much as I for having kids when you are TOTALLY READY for them - women do have somewhat of a time limit if you want to have your own kids. Maybe you have somewhat of a stretch with procedure like IVF etc. Any doc would tell you that your chances of conception decrease after 35 and even more after 40s.
Something to consider.
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seems like someone's running out of thread topics. :D
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It cannot be forced on a woman because it's her body.
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should not be forced and should be discussed like adults, c`mon communication ppl 
P.S i personally dont want a kid for atleast 3-4 yrs after marriage, cuz i wanna enjoy my life and probably go to some nice vacations with my wife before i get forcefully grounded i mean have kids :k:
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Few things that should be made clear at the time of marriage . This is one of them . Tell her no compromise for anything less than 12 :p
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I find the answers interesting considering the excuses were not made when it came to forcing the man to have kids.
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most girls seem to only be too eager to have babies.. (or maybe this is just my experience 
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Ok I was gone to Roche today again for my project and one of the people working in the lab (in his 60's I guess) is a realy really quiet guy... i haven't seen him smiling much... But anyways, he lives nearby, and he goes home for lunch everyday whereas everyone else goes to the canteen on site...
So I asked my supervisor today whether XYZ was gone home for lunch and he said yes... then I asked if his wife was also living at home... and his reply totally shocked me.... "XYZ isn't married. He's alone"..... And I was just like ... "oh.... ok"
lol... what else was I supposed to say.
So yeah.... people who run after money too much will end up sad and lonely... Family is everything in the end...
"Mere paas maa hai" ; )
I find the answers interesting considering the excuses were not made when it came to forcing the man to have kids.
That is the reason i did not respond in that thread, cuz i believe in the exact thing that person believed in, he wanted a stable household to bring is child into, whats wrong in that, now if the woman thinks that her biological clock is ticking well she should have thought about it earlier, cuz one must realise it is a couples decision not one person`s decision key jab mood hua to lets make a baby :D
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Depend on circumstances she can be and should be coerced!
And depend on situation, she should agree.
Forcing is kind of harsh word.
It does not matter if it is her body, husband has 'full right' to have kids when married to her.
If she is medically unfit then that is another issue.
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*Why do desi's have such communication problems?? *
*Why do desi's have such communication problems?? *
Who says they do???
I find the answers interesting considering the excuses were not made when it came to forcing the man to have kids.
Yeah, but men do not carry the child for nine months, deal with labor, breastfeed..
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Yeah. But without men you can't have men. And just because your feel like it doesn't mean you can force someone else to have a kid.
Yeah, but men do not carry the child for nine months, deal with labor, breastfeed..
But they do work hard to support the child and their family right?
Women still tend to have a choice whether they want to work or not to supplement the income o for extra pocket money. but men dont' have that choice.
Working to support your family is just as big a responsibility....