Re: Reverse Roles
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*Originally posted by funguy: *
Let's say you are the woman in a married couple. You both make almost equal amount of money. Both have equally bright career paths ahead of you. You decide to have children. In the 10th year of marriage you have TWO kids. Neither of you quit your job in those 10 years and sent the children to day-care centers.
The kids are 1 and 3 years old now. Both of you agree that it would be in the best interest of the whole family if one of you quits the job and stays home to raise the children until they are at least 10 years old. The husband expects YOU to stay home.
But, you are hesitant becaue it is a career job and you just don't wana miss the industry for 8 to 10 years. This means you might have to start all over again in your late 30's to early 40's. But you also realize that the kids need someone at home. This won't change even if they start going to school at age 5. You don't want them to spend any time in after-school programs or with a hired caretaker at home. The ONLY ACCEPTABLE option is for one of the parents to be with the children until they are 10 years old.
Since you are hesitant, the husband agrees to quitting his job and putting his career on hold for the sake of family. My question to you is how would you feel about a husband not working and staying home raising children?.
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iss se achii baat kia hoo gee bhalaa :D ke he would stay at home for kids ...I dont really mind it coz HE is good father umm better than me for kids ...I shamefully admit that i am not good mom ...khair that is what i am saying rightnow here , who know what i ll do when i am in such sitution ? i dont know really coz i am that kinda person who listen to folk our soch soch ke khurana and my hubby keep telling me that dont care about people unn ka thu kaam hee yahi hai but i cant change my nature ...lucky ppl who just dont care about anyone ...
